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		<title>Just Breathe</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Mar 2020 19:47:33 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Re-posted from March 6, 2014 &#8220;I took a deep breath and listened to the old brag of my heart.I am, I am, I am.&#8221; Sylvia Plath There’s a stillness that descends on the hospital late at night, softening the harshness &#8230; <a href="https://lisapullenkent.com/just-breathe/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a></p>
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		<title>In Her Image</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Aug 2015 02:00:43 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Sometimes I feel like a motherless childSometimes I feel like a motherless childSometimes I feel like a motherless childA long way from home African-American Spiritual I’m going to lose my mother. It&#8217;s an inevitability I never used to think about. &#8230; <a href="https://lisapullenkent.com/in-her-image/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a></p>
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		<title>To Believe or Not to Believe</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Dec 2014 03:26:37 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>“Mom, is Santa real?” My youngest shouts this over the top of Katy Perry’s “Roar” playing on the radio as I’m dodging traffic on Providence Road, trying to get to gymnastics. I shouldn’t be surprised that questions of this magnitude &#8230; <a href="https://lisapullenkent.com/to-believe-or-not-to-believe/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a></p>
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		<title>Let It Go</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 02 May 2014 11:17:05 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Before moving to Columbia, Missouri, spring break meant a week off school to hang around the house and catch up on projects. I soon learned this is not the case in the Midwest.  In CoMo, it’s ‘hasta la vista, baby,’ &#8230; <a href="https://lisapullenkent.com/let-it-go/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a></p>
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		<title>The Light Between Us</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Mar 2014 22:42:25 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>One love, one blood, one life.You got to do what you should.One life with each other, Sisters and Brothers.One life, but we&#8217;re not the same. We get to carry each other, carry each other. One, U2 She doesn’t even know &#8230; <a href="https://lisapullenkent.com/the-light-between-us/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a></p>
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		<title>Just Like That</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Jan 2014 02:40:50 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Aaaaaaand just like that, Christmas is over.&#160; The preparation, the anticipation, the actualization; come and gone for another year.&#160; My beautiful live tree adorned in sparkling red and gold is dead, morphed into an endearing Dr. Suess caricature; its pliant &#8230; <a href="https://lisapullenkent.com/just-like-that/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a></p>
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		<title>The Only Way Out is Through</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Sep 2013 05:29:01 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Grief lives in our house. Among the furniture, between the windows and the walls, it sits, thick and unmoving. Grief rides heavy on my chest. I can’t get a good, deep breath these days. It weighs down my husband’s shoulders and molds his features. Grief seeps into our nights of restless sleep and dreams of forgetting, of waking, and then remembering. <a href="https://lisapullenkent.com/the-only-way-out-is-through/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a></p>
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		<title>Leap From the Nest</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Sep 2012 09:19:49 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Where are you going, my little one, little one,Where are you going, my baby, my own?Turn around and you’re two, turn around and you’re four,Turn around and you’re a young girl going out of my door. Malvina Reynolds and Alan &#8230; <a href="https://lisapullenkent.com/leap-from-the-nest/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a></p>
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