Ron, what an incredible reflection. I love it. I believe you articulated what Sydney brings to my life quite perfectly: she slows everything down so I can see more clearly, so I can embrace more fully, so I don’t MISS it by rushing through to the next thing. She also helps me re-prioritize (like, daily!). Sydney isn’t just special because she has Down syndrome; she has a certain essence about her that is very serene. She exudes that energy and so effects those around her with her mere presence. When she has behavior issues (which have been increasing through puberty–I mean, seriously? Hormones and adolescence is hard enough without an intellectual disability), her spirit is masked by her outward manifestation, but not to everyone. Those who can really see who she is will help her through this period of time. Thank you, thank you, for so eloquently commenting and making this mom feel great. <3