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		<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jul 2025 16:31:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Jun 2023 22:50:49 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>My birthday is tomorrow and I’m turning 60. (I know, right?!) As a gift to myself, I’ve decided to stop coloring my hair. The whole process is messy and time consuming, and lately, it seems the results last all of &#8230; <a href="https://lisapullenkent.com/they-say-its-your-birthday/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a></p>
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		<title>The Bonus Baby</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Jun 2022 16:53:08 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s birthday time again. Each year, the full trip around the sun seems to get shorter. The passage of time is marked by my wrinkles, as distinct as tree rings. The same me, but . . . older. My children, &#8230; <a href="https://lisapullenkent.com/the-bonus-baby/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a></p>
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		<title>What Do You Know?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 17 May 2022 00:00:25 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>I held some strong convictions when I was young. I just knew what I knew was true because, well, “when you know, you know,” right? But I didn’t know what I didn’t know. For most of us, we often miss &#8230; <a href="https://lisapullenkent.com/what-do-you-know/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a></p>
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		<title>Evanescent</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jul 2021 04:46:05 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>When I was growing up we moved a lot, big moves crisscrossing the country. Perpetually the new kid, I never stayed long enough to feel like I fit in. Then, I married a man whose childhood was the opposite of &#8230; <a href="https://lisapullenkent.com/evanescent/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a></p>
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		<title>Not So Long Ago and Not So Far Away</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Jan 2021 00:11:08 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Contemplative by nature, the isolation of this COVID year has forced constant and not always welcome introspection. Magnetically drawn to the tales of Storybooke, the fictional town inhabited by intersecting  <a href="https://lisapullenkent.com/not-so-long-ago-and-not-so-far-away/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a></p>
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		<title>Antidote to Disillusionment*</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Aug 2020 02:39:23 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>*Reading given at the Unitarian Universalist Church of Columbia, online, August 9, 2020 &#8220;Always have enough courage to trust love one more time and always one more time.&#8221; Maya Angelou In what do I place my trust? This profound, existential &#8230; <a href="https://lisapullenkent.com/antidote-to-disillusionment/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a></p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 08 May 2020 20:29:55 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Lately, my emotions are scrubbed up raw. Tender, like new skin. My nerve endings fire all the time. I feel everything without a buffer, as if there are no more desensitizing layers laid down with busy, distracted, numbing activity.  <a href="https://lisapullenkent.com/cancer-in-a-covid-world/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a></p>
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		<title>View From A Quarantine</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Apr 2020 00:06:38 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>”Is this our new normal?” we find ourselves wondering, though we know it can't go on forever. For now, though, we have nowhere to be except right where we are and that has never happened. I recognize it for the miracle that it is. But on Day eleventy-seven of our release from the confines of routine, I'm starting to feel a little adrift.  <a href="https://lisapullenkent.com/view-from-a-quarantine/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a></p>
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		<title>Resurgent Hope</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Mar 2020 21:28:16 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>I read once that Canadian geese are monogamous, that most couples stay together all their lives. Considering the brutality of life in this wild world, I find that to be an inspiring example of devotion, applicable to the human condition, particularly in our postmodern reality.  <a href="https://lisapullenkent.com/resurgence-of-hope/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a></p>
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